Wednesday, 26 October 2022
A Four Point Algorithm To Combat Backwardness
Saturday, 19 March 2022
Bhutan's Highest Paid Civil Servants
Did you know that the highest paid civil servants in Bhutan are teachers and medical staff?
I invite you to read this article: https://indianexpress.com/article/india/web/in-bhutan-teachers-medical-staff-will-now-be-highest-paid-civil-servants-5776604/
There is tremendous long term wisdom in this decision! These are the seeds one must sow for development in its true sense. This is how a society starts evolving in the right direction.
Netherlands' Invisible Bike Lanes
Have a look at this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1l75QqRR48
They need to play this on the big screen at every climate meeting just to set the tone. This, to me, is the first collective step we need to take to cut down fossil fuel consumption.
I would absolutely love to see Indian cities taking this up!
Making Relationships Work
Thursday, 24 February 2022
Let the children play
Why would I wage wars?
Physical Attractiveness: Not An "Essential Qualification"!
1. Efficiency.
2. Courtesy.
3. The confidence that they are trained and fit to handle emergency situations.
That's it.
Neither gender nor how "physically attractive" they are plays any role whatsoever in my mind.
It's your level of skill and competence that needs to count, not how "good looking" you are.
Is this how flight attendants are hired today?
(And stretching Point 3 further: Aren't track suits and sneakers the best possible uniform for flight attendants, police personnel and every profession where athleticism is of paramount importance and not fashion and "looks"?)
Note: My use of " " for the phrases "physically attractive", "good looking" and "looks" is to firmly emphasize that beautiful cannot be stereotyped. Glow with goodness from within and keep yourself fit - that's it - you're then quite beautiful!
Friday, 18 February 2022
Strength!
I want nothing from you.
Atheism Vs Inhumane Believers
Someone praying or going to religious places is no guarantee in itself that they are good and trustworthy.
Worshipping Lord Vishnu
One of the most spiritually elevated statements I have ever heard is simply this:
Monday, 14 February 2022
What else but love?
You kind of feel hurt
No one's said anything and the evening was quite alright
Ached into silence look around
Only the flowers and the leaves and the trees make sense
Even laughter shrieks
as if cruel and mocking by nature
Just how it is.
Except when love elicits the laughter
Head falling back, Eyes closing
Silence and completeness
And you smile.
Thursday, 10 February 2022
Power!
Wednesday, 9 February 2022
From Untruth To Truth
Here's one of my favorite prayers. Here the Universal Divine Consciousness is addressed as Om. You can address the same as Ishwar, Bhagwaan, God or Allah. There's only one Universal Divine Consciousness and it is beyond all names, forms and classifications.
Economic Models: Time & Tide
Anyone talking about "ending socialism" in India is plain cuckoo.
Public healthcare, education and transport cannot go from this country till poverty ends. The government must also maintain a significant stake in food, energy, defense and space.
Monday, 7 February 2022
Globalize But Reject Your Neighbors?
We talk about the value of exposing ourselves to cultures all over the world, exchanging views, enriching ourselves by absorbing whatever is good.
Make Religion A Conscious Choice
A whole lot of religious strife in the world would just disappear if parents and teachers told their children this when growing up:
Humility: Not A Choice
A wise man once remarked:
Sunday, 6 February 2022
Elections: Get A Grip!
Saturday, 5 February 2022
New IITs: A Case Study In Debacles
PhD Students: Not Paper Churning Machines!
Indian Academia: No Foreign Defense Research!
Thursday, 3 February 2022
A Fashion Challenge
This is one initiative I'm endlessly proud of 😊: https://www.fabindia.com/
Personal comfort and style preferences aside, to which each of us is obviously entitled, purely on aesthetic merit, I throw an open fashion challenge:
Come, bring as much global fabric and fashion as you can muster. Indian, hand drawn, designs on fabric will match whatever you have :).
What this part of the world has done with fabric is simply nothing short of genius :).
[Food for thought: The Euro-American fashion industry has impacted the whole world. The East, while no less brilliant with fabric, form & color, hasn't responded in proportion, hasn't invested enough in advertising what it has to offer. One doesn't see too many Europeans & Americans wearing Eastern ethnicwear. Isn't this interesting?]
Wednesday, 19 January 2022
Striptease
Tells the children
Slurping slushies
Squealing on the slide
Big Business and Real Estate
Fur Coats and Nuclear Bombs
Are more beautiful
Than the tree house
Papa built
To catch shooting stars.
That ran beside
The happy hour announcement
Thursday, 6 January 2022
Leave Abusive Relationships / Marriages
There is absolutely no glory in staying on in abusive relationships / marriages. This holds for either gender.
If you are feeling manipulated, emotionally exploited or abused, or are being physically abused, in your relationship / marriage, and your instinct is telling you to step out of the relationship / marriage, then have the courage to take that step.
Yes, this might bring challenges : specially if you have children. Figure a way out to deal with your challenges.
And if you are worried about what people in the society around you (or maybe your own relatives) will say, just forget about it. Those who actually care about you will be there for you. And those who don't, well, they can very well take a walk. Good for you that you figured out who your real friends are.
[PS: And if *you* manipulate people around you, emotionally exploit them, or are physically abusive : Change. It's possible to change for the better and I don't see why you should not be the best human being you can be. Everyone deserves this opportunity.]
Wednesday, 5 January 2022
Education and Career: Avoid Unnecessary Constraints.
I sometimes come across notions such as:
1) One should go to a college "near home" (particularly women!) so that one stays close to one's folks even if one needs to compromise on pursuing one's interests or the quality of education.
2) One should seek career opportunities "near parents" so that they don't have to relocate even if one has to compromise on working in a field of interest or be in a work environment that doesn't allow you to express your talents fully or exploits / frustrates you.
All this is nonsensical flubber!
Schooling near home is (generally) sensible but college education, regardless of gender, firmly needs to be about studying what you want to study and in the best possible institute you can.
And when it's time to pursue your career, unless your parents are unable to get a visa during old age and/or a serious extended illness, please, please, do what you are passionate about and find yourself the best possible work environment you can. If this means that your parents need to relocate, then that's fine. No one gains anything if you waste your talents and pursue a listless mediocre career.
And here's some more nonsensical flubber that you'll hear from time to time:
3. Sons should be taking up the same profession as their fathers, women should follow their mothers' footsteps (and stay home!), etc . Worse, phrases like "our tradition", "Indian system", "sanskaar sanskriti" are used to justify such notions.
[I also invite you to read the following posts:
1. Strike a Pause: Your Blossoming Is As Important As Anything Else! (strike-a-pause.blogspot.com)
2. Strike a Pause: Choosing A Career Path After 12th Grade (strike-a-pause.blogspot.com)
3. Strike a Pause: On Changing Career Paths And Academic Directions (strike-a-pause.blogspot.com)]