There is absolutely no glory in staying on in abusive relationships / marriages. This holds for either gender.
If you are feeling manipulated, emotionally exploited or abused, or are being physically abused, in your relationship / marriage, and your instinct is telling you to step out of the relationship / marriage, then have the courage to take that step.
Yes, this might bring challenges : specially if you have children. Figure a way out to deal with your challenges.
And if you are worried about what people in the society around you (or maybe your own relatives) will say, just forget about it. Those who actually care about you will be there for you. And those who don't, well, they can very well take a walk. Good for you that you figured out who your real friends are.
[PS: And if *you* manipulate people around you, emotionally exploit them, or are physically abusive : Change. It's possible to change for the better and I don't see why you should not be the best human being you can be. Everyone deserves this opportunity.]
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