Dating and Choosing Partners!

I've always found it strange how most people date and choose their partners.

I too feel that a basic level of fitness and upkeep needs to be a part of one's personality because these aspects say something about how much you value yourself. But this much in place, love and relationships are matters of the heart! One needs to be with someone who has a beautiful and caring heart, and then just love them with all your heart! This is beautiful even when life is going well, and it is everything when life takes a downturn (it usually does at some point in time or the other!) because then such people stay even when others don't (which too happens!).

And most people seem to completely miss this! Instead they make their choices based on just physical attributes! Boobs, Butts, Biceps, Phallus! And some stretch the physical attributes part to a whole another level - they go for stuff like "the Exotic look", "the Asian look", "the Brazilan look", etc. etc. etc. Then others are obsessed with "what someone reads", "what kind of music one listens to", and so on and on... As if one were ordering a dish off a menu!

None of this is important at the core. Only the heart is. A heart that loves is beautiful, charming, attractive.

Haven't you ever looked into someone's eyes and seen love just beaming out? That! Go for that!